Beginning instrumental students need tons of encouragement.
Playing an instrument is an adult skill
Sometimes you must practice loud to develop good tone
Practice each day
Find a comfortable place in which to practice
Musical instruments are not toys. They are very fragile - precision instruments.
Do not allow others to handle them. Play the instrument each day to maintain
your instrument in good working order.A damaged instrument may not play
at all.
Set up a consistent time each day (free from distractions) that will allow
you to
practice and not disturb the family. (15-20 minutes a day, to start).
Play for parents and relatives once you learn some songs.
Parents should sit with their students at least once a week while they practice.
Have them
show you what they are doing. Help them count.
Write down the school lesson time and be sure to take the instrument to
school.
Every instrument has periods in the learning process that will be difficult.
Learn the definition of the word "persevere". Call the instrumental
teacher if you need help.
Woodwind instruments will need a good supply of reeds (except flute). Brasses
will need oil / slide lubricant. Music stands and reed guards are good gift
idea.
Parents should consider taking a few lessons on the instrument. It gives
you better insight into what your student is going through, and it may be
fun for your child as well as yourself.
Their teachers want them to succeed. Let them know if you have concerns.

These general principles apply to almost all
embouchure set-ups of beginning wind players.
Do not puff the cheeks or allow air to pillow underneath
the lips
Do not bunch the chin up underneath the mouthpiece
Maintain a firm set to the corners of the mouth with
a slight downward turn
Allow the air to flow strongly and freely, without
obstruction
Too much tension is just as bad as the opposite condition
In the brass embouchure exact mid placement of mouthpiece
is a rarity


warm up routines and exercises
technical studies and patterns
melodic phrasing and musical development
sight reading
warm down and instrument maintenance if needed
The above links take you to descriptions of some very easy to understand
Parent's Guides on music teaching. The author is Jim Probasco and they are
published by:
Betterway Books
1507 Dana Ave
Cincinnati, OH 45207
(800) 289-0963
These books can fill an important niche in keeping parents informed about
their children and music instruction in a school setting.
Mr. Probasco is also one of the authors of a beginning band method with
an amusing title: